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𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁𝘀𝗔𝗽𝗽 𝗜𝗹𝗹𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻: 𝗔 𝗧𝗿𝗮𝗱𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻 𝗼𝗳 𝗗𝗲𝗰𝗲𝗽𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻

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𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝗪𝗵𝗮𝘁𝘀𝗔𝗽𝗽 𝗜𝗹𝗹𝘂𝘀𝗶𝗼𝗻: 𝘼 𝙏𝙧𝙖𝙙𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝙤𝙛 𝘿𝙚𝙘𝙚𝙥𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣 𝟏. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 "𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐥𝐞" 𝐆𝐚𝐭𝐞𝐤𝐞𝐞𝐩𝐞𝐫    On WhatsApp, promises are cheap but delivery is expensive. It is a platform where people are generous with their words and "sincerity" until the moment of action. Trying to get real value or money out of a WhatsApp commitment is like trying to pass through the eye of a needle. The platform makes it easy to say "yes" while the person is smiling and lying on the other side of the screen. 𝟐. 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐃𝐞𝐚𝐭𝐡 𝐨𝐟 𝐒𝐢𝐧𝐜𝐞𝐫𝐢𝐭𝐲    The greatest tragedy of the platform is that it has killed genuine connection.    The Hidden Face: You can message a friend with total sincerity, but you cannot see that they are mocking the message or "catching a cruise" while they type a serious reply.    The Filter of Distrust: Because people are so used to "forming stories," when you actually tell the truth, it is dig...

𝗧𝗛𝗘 𝗣𝗥𝗜𝗡𝗖𝗜𝗣𝗟𝗘 𝗢𝗙 𝗥𝗘𝗦𝗣𝗢𝗡𝗦𝗜𝗕𝗜𝗟𝗜𝗧𝗬

It's essential to consider the principle of not sending another person's child on an errand if you're not willing to have your own child sent on one. Many people have a double standard, where they're happy to send others' children on errands but wouldn't want their own children to do the same. This inconsistency can lead to trouble and conflict. Imagine a scenario where you're in need of something and can't find anyone to help. You see some children around and decide to ask one of them to run an errand for you. The child agrees, but when they get home, their parent finds out and is not pleased. The parent might say, "Don't go on errands for others," and you might wonder why they wouldn't want their child to help. However, the parent might have valid reasons for their child's behavior. The issue here isn't about the child going on errands or refusing to do so. It's about the person sending the child. If you're capable of ...

A LESSON IN CAREGIVING AND THE WEIGHT OF RESPONSIBILITY

In my dream, I had a two time recurring scenario. I saw a man taking kids to school in the evening, which seemed unusual since the schools were already closed. The children didn't belong to him; they were someone else's kids. The man was trying to reach the mother, but she wasn't answering her phone. The kids were aware of the situation and expressing their feelings. As I watched, I intervened and shared a personal experience with the man. I told him about times when I came home from school and my parents weren't around. I explained that I understood the challenges of waiting for someone to return. I urged the man to be patient and understanding, suggesting that he take care of the kids until the mother returned. I emphasized the importance of communication and empathy in resolving the situation. I realize one thing that this modern days that people give their kids to anyone no matter who they are they believe that this person is trustworthy to be with my child reading ...

The Right Direction

So many people want to make it so quickly, even me, but it just takes the right direction. If someone is not careful, he could fall into the traps of the long run. And the long run is not the one that we know as taking the long way; yes, it is very necessary to take the long way but understanding and knowing that this is your dream will keep you going without stopping. Sometimes when I'm down, I feel what can I do to undertake a long process to achieve it, but I know one thing: keep pushing on. If you don't, opportunity can come the right way, and you could miss it, even if you've touched it. It explains like this: a man comes to your door, and then you open it, and he gives you a million-dollar box. But if you haven't been preparing, tomorrow morning, you'll proceed by getting all you need and believing it's all you need. But to a smart man, it's all he wants. So, it's better to start from somewhere than starting from halfway. This is it. To achieve you...

Beyond Upbringing: the complexity of human development

There's nothing a child cannot become as long as the child has left his parents  Many people I know today has become what's the dictionary explained as untrained child  But that is not true  I was brought upwell and I did not turn out to be like that sometimes it is just inheritance from their parents or their friends  Don't judge me judge the book  Because human story is just like a book not the cover